#relationships - Shift.ms

28 Jan 2016 19:29Last reply 27 Nov 2017 14:15

relationships..

Ahh love relationships and Ms! How's a disabled guy suffering from a complex disease like Ms find the right woman!? I don't mind explaining the basics about how ms might affect ME but it always seems to become a problem with US... thanks ms! #not :-/

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@Cam0493

9 Sep 2014 16:34Last reply 4 Oct 2020 10:49

Relationships

It might have been talked about but I'm married and to start with he was great but now he's not interested and even had 2 affairs. The thing he's staid he needed to get away the first time. The second which I think he's still doing or yet another he really wants nothing to do with me and sleeps down...

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@tamarap

6 May 2012 18:24Last reply 9 Jun 2012 05:27

Relationships

I have a question to ask people's advice on. In Aug 2008 I was diagnosed with MS from an episode in optic neuritis. I got married in Sept 2008 (planned a year before) to my seemingly supportive husband. In Aug 2010 I had to part from my husband as he said "MS wasn't what he signed for". At the ti...

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@Constantine_Rosalie

30 Jun 2019 12:31Last reply 4 Jul 2019 07:54

relationships

Hello everyone. I was diagnosed with MS about 8 months ago. Since then my relationship with my boyfriend has been going down the toilet (we have been together for almost 2 years). We always fight over stupid reasons, I end up feeling sad or angry and eventually cry my eyes out. My self esteem is...

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@barryb

29 Apr 2016 07:33Last reply 2 Jul 2016 13:26

Relationships and having MS

Hi All, My partner of almost 22 years no longer wants to be with me, we have no children, has anyone been in the same boat? I don't think I can ever open up to anyone else again in the same way, hell we met when I was 21, is this it now? Who would want to be with someone with this disease? Excuse...

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@Lauren_Bailey

15 Dec 2019 03:36Last reply 16 Dec 2019 16:11

Relationships

Hey everyone, I’ve just joined and thought I’d ask when dating how do people bring this up? I feel like I’m going to be single forever haha

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@ScottEvans

13 Nov 2017 06:53Last reply 23 Nov 2017 19:43

Relationships with ms

Hi how do you get over relationship problems with ms I'm married with two young children but find I feel so guilty if I need a nap or struggle to do something. I get the feeling my wife is just taking the uff and thinking I'm lazy and it's starting to get to me.

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@janep

10 Mar 2015 14:34Last reply 25 Mar 2015 11:27

Impact of MS in relationships

Hi Everyone, I’m a shift community member and in my day job I’m a psychology researcher. I am currently involved in an application to the MS Society for a new research project aiming to develop an intervention to support couples where one partner has MS. As part of the application we’d like to sh...

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@Ginge07

28 Nov 2015 13:05Last reply 30 Nov 2015 11:14

Relationships

How many Ms sufferers who were single at diagnosis are still single? Especially after disability kicks in

Diagnosis

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@KrisP

5 Apr 2015 09:43Last reply 5 Apr 2015 16:04

Relationships

Any advice on how to deal with this? I'm currently not diagnosed but having ALOT of problems which make it more and more likely. The issue I'm having is looking forward to the future or planning anything, I also find it hard seeing other people get on with life when I'm struggling. On top of this my...

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@keepupthefight

8 Sep 2018 17:05Last reply 16 Sep 2018 08:29

Family and relationships

Evening all, Without going into my whole life story ( it would take a while, and I don’t want to push you all over the edge..😂). But let’s say, my family was never functional, but guess, whose is? That said, I lost my father a few years before diagnosis, and I have never been close to my mother. ...

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@Amy2107

14 Sep 2016 15:13Last reply 17 Sep 2016 12:33

MS and Relationships

I'm looking for advice on how to handle discussing MS with a partner. I've been diagnosed with MS for nearly 18 months now, and now it is starting to have a very negative effect on my relationship, to the point he wants to end our 2 and a half year relationship. He wants to end it because I don't t...

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@bLeThEr89

13 Apr 2020 21:17Last reply 21 Apr 2020 08:27

Young-ish relationships?

I have been in a relationship with my partner for 9 years, we were together for about 1.5 years when the MS hit bad, he stuck through it, not without upset, but here we are 9 years later, when we get into arguments it always reverts back to “I stuck with you through your illness” which I take on bo...

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@Margaret_Barrie

6 Mar 2020 10:28Last reply 9 Mar 2020 00:58

Relationships

I hope I am not alone with this problem but need advice has anybody tried viagra for women my sister told me it's a thing I can try to get my mojo back my husband is so caring and understanding about my complete lack of lust but I actually really miss the intimacy I love my husband so much and he i...

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@JoR

21 Jun 2010 22:00Last reply 24 Jun 2010 10:09

Relationships

Hey everyone, The MS Soc in London is holding an event about MS and relationships in November, covering topics like socialising, sex and dealing with family. Does anyone have advice on issues youâ€™d want covered? Does this sound like an event you'd consider going to? Any advice appreciated. Jo

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@larissajathomas

4 Mar 2017 21:14Last reply 5 Mar 2017 09:59

Finding relationships hard..??

I've noticed lately I am finding it very differcult to completely be honest with the ones I love lately and trust about my emotions I just tell them I am fine or act like I am okay and try to move on but because so much happens so often to me I don't want to add stress or worry them about me anymo...

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@melissag

7 Mar 2018 19:30Last reply 17 Apr 2018 03:56

MSers and our partners

Recently I’ve seen a fair amount of posts on the forum here talking about relationships. Some from partners of MSers wondering how best to lend support and some from MSers wondering how best to communicate their needs. Would love to start the conversation here from both sides. MSers, how do you b...

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@sarahshift

21 Sep 2015 13:59Last reply 25 Sep 2015 20:52

Missing the boat...

Hey all... I've been asked to share this by a member. They got in touch with me after we sent the members newsletter out the other week and it featured our two films, Gallop and Belong. "I watched your two videos on MS relationships (Gallop and the one with Kanye West and they are inspirational. ...

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@lorag

22 Dec 2012 10:24Last reply 24 Dec 2012 14:06

Men can be so cruel and dumb

Well I asked the question to a guy I have been sleeping with 'what isvyour ideal woman cause its obviously not me' his answer 'somebody I can travel with going with is too hard'. Well I asked him to be truthful, but that really really hurt, I can't stop crying cause its true. I have decided to...

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@DominicS

14 Jan 2021 13:18Last reply 16 Jan 2021 16:01

What do you wish that your Doctor had asked you?

I'm increasingly curious - dismayed and thrilled - about people's experiences with their Doctors (Neurologists and GPs). Almost all of us were catapulted into regular contact with the NHS, something many of us didn't expect. Unlike a surgeon who comes in, fixes something with a scalpel and moves o...

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