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@Kristel21 

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Kristel21

Has anyone else been feeling a significant loss of confidence, constantly questioning their relationship, their purpose in life, and what the future might hold?

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@lllJlll 

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lllJlll

Recently diagnosed and my life just took a drastic turn

it’s been rough since the diagnosis. My relationship ended because of it, even if it wasn’t the only reason. A lot of little things stacked up, but when things got tough, she left. Just moved out over the weekend let her keep the apartment. I’ve been trying to reach out to the MS community, see if I...
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@Invisible 

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Invisible

Partner troubles.

Do you ever wonder if your partner is gonna stay with you through this? Like some days he is supportive and other days no, and throws my illness in my face. We've been together for 11 years had ups and downs like you do in a relationship but I've never really questioned our relationship til now. ...
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@carmenrivera 

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carmenrivera

Relationships/marriage

Has anyone ended up getting/considered a breakup after getting diagnosed? Did anyone’s partner just stopped caring after seeing some type of improvement? In my case when I first got ny diagnosis I told my husband that if he wanted I would sign the divorce papers (I’m 28 he’s 40, Im the one who work...
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@nicolemoore79aolcom 

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Relationship with MS

Why is it so hard to find love with MS?
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@Darren79 

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Darren79

Relationships

Hey everyone, I have a question. Has anyone on here experienced the breakdown of a relationship due primarily to ms and the changes it causes to the relationship and how have they coped with it?
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@jenine 

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jenine

Im scared to be a burden

Im scared to be in a relationship with anyone because I don’t want to be a burden. My biggest fear would be my ms holding back the person I love the most
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@LonnieDixon1893 

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LonnieDixon1893

Depression and anxiety

Good day to everyone. This is my first time joining a MS group, I've been dealing with MS since I was 16, diagnosed at 19 and I'm 32 years old now. I have been dealing with social anxiety that has greatly impacted past relationships and any possible relationship ahead. I feel as being up front and ...
Grand Junction, United States
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@Jordanm 

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Jordanm

Edinburgh & Lothians

I am wondering if anyone would be interested in a meet up? I was diagnosed at age 22 (now 24). While I listened to my peers in their 20s and 30s make plans for their future I became hesitant for mine. I have come across various support groups which tend to be when I am at work. I find there is ...
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@Miraal 

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Miraal

Lonely 😔

Hi people! I hope you're all doing good and feeling the best. I'm so anxious and feeling lonely. All of my cousins are getting married and Im Just in a long-distance relationship 😔 Do I deserve to be married ?! ; 13 yrs of MS, RR , etc... not so active cause I have just anxiety around in my house...
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