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Relationships with family, friends and partners can be affected following a diagnosis of multiple sclerosis. Learn how others manage their relationships alongside their MS.

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@Darren79 

6 May 2025 20:39Last reply 14 May 2025 00:42

Darren79

Relationships

Hey everyone, I have a question. Has anyone on here experienced the breakdown of a relationship due primarily to ms and the changes it causes to the relationship and how have they coped with it?
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@Shillam81 

3 Jan 2023 21:54 EditedLast reply 4 Apr 2025 06:58

Shillam81

MS and relationships.

I was diagnosed with RRMS in March 2022, after having Covid-19, 6 times in 8 months. Since diagnosis, things are progressively getting worse, such as my cognitive function, speech, tiredness, and pain. My memory is terrible now to the point where I am repeating my sentences over and over again, and ...
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@Eliza 

3 Aug 2022 10:52Last reply 29 Mar 2025 05:52

Eliza

Marriage / relationships and MS

Hi there! Is anyone else struggling with your relationships after the diagnosis? I personally feel that Ms changed me a lot and my wife seems to miss the person I was… and that I will never be again. Also, sometimes I feel “flat” like my emotions are not fully out, I think Ms changed that too. Very...
Dublin, Ireland
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@ricardo2646 

20 Jul 2024 23:09Last reply 25 Mar 2025 02:16

ricardo2646

Relationships

I’ve gone from running marathons,going gym and playing football to having to use crutches to walk 100m , constant pain and numbness in my left side, the fatigue is ridiculous and enough powerful meds to knock out an elephant ,all in 5 years,how does everyone keep their relationships alive with the i...
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@bLeThEr89 

13 Apr 2020 21:17Last reply 15 Jan 2025 18:37

bLeThEr89

Young-ish relationships?

I have been in a relationship with my partner for 9 years, we were together for about 1.5 years when the MS hit bad, he stuck through it, not without upset, but here we are 9 years later, when we get into arguments it always reverts back to “I stuck with you through your illness” which I take on bo...
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@Lauren_Bailey 

15 Dec 2019 03:36Last reply 6 Jan 2025 19:13

Lauren_Bailey

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Hey everyone, I’ve just joined and thought I’d ask when dating how do people bring this up? I feel like I’m going to be single forever haha
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@RitaH 

1 Sep 2024 14:23Last reply 1 Sep 2024 14:38

RitaH

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Anyone struggling with keeping a relationship ? Every guy I talk to ends up leaving after realising how much of a responsibility I am during my bad days :/
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@Clary 

13 Sep 2022 08:42Last reply 20 Aug 2024 17:22

Clary

Change in relationships

Ever since diagnosis I have found that my nearest and dearest try to take advantage of my difficulties. My husband tries to take advantage of my poor memory. I had a massive argument with my mother, and I have argued with a friend for my husbands sake. I feel like I don’t want to suffer fools gladly...
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@BillySmith 

10 Aug 2022 09:28Last reply 20 Jul 2024 20:14

BillySmith

A brilliant podcast about MS and relationships that you need to hear

Hey everyone 👋 Before reading on, can I ask a favour. Can you comment down below with your relationship status? (Just one word will do)👇 It’d be cool to know so we can make more podcasts focused on what you need! I recently guested on the MS Trust podcast which explored how MS affects dating, rel...
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@Ricardo74 

1 Jan 2024 18:03Last reply 2 Jan 2024 17:38

Ricardo74

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Has anybody experienced a relationship and they make it that is not the Ms,,, and being pushed to the point of making so uncomfortable for you
Colton, United Kingdom
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