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@Tiffcorpus 

6 May 2025 19:11Last reply 7 May 2025 04:38

Tiffcorpus

Dating

So here’s something outside of my usual and Occasional posts. I haven’t been on date Since 2019 (I’m single) And it’s only because I refuse to go on a date, considering my physical disability. Guys are still interested. I just have a really big ego I guess and I don’t except the offer even tho I wa...
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@aprilvictoria1 

20 Dec 2023 12:52Last reply 2 Jan 2025 20:29

aprilvictoria1

Dating !

How do those who are single, get round the hurdle of dating, as soon as I tell a woman who I get chatting to that I've got ms, they just disappear, it can be so upsetting.
South Yorkshire, UK
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@allysalexus 

11 Nov 2024 21:44Last reply 15 Nov 2024 10:25

allysalexus

Dating

How is your dating life with ms? Do I tell him my issues like walking/ balance? I don’t know how to go about it. He knows my diagnose but I don’t think he knows my limitations.
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@hailey556 

20 Aug 2024 03:39Last reply 20 Oct 2024 01:54

hailey556

Dating

When do you tell someone your dating that you have ms? I told the last person on the 5th date and they got upset with me for not telling them sooner. I didn’t feel comfortable with them sooner and it didn’t seem like he was that into me.
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@Dannyboy01 

17 Nov 2022 19:17Last reply 24 Feb 2023 00:56

Dannyboy01

Dating

Oh my days, I'm hurt!! My wife that I've now separated couldn't live with/deal with a faulty husband so at the beginning of this year I moved back to my parents to enable me to start again after being awarded own little 1 bed flat from the housing. I unexpectedly started dating someone and now unf...
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@Stgup02 

8 Feb 2023 13:39Last reply 17 Feb 2023 00:25

Stgup02

Dating

Dating sucks when u have MS.
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@Stgup02 

31 Jan 2023 16:10Last reply 16 Feb 2023 23:17

Stgup02

Dating

Should I date a lady with MS?
Charlotte, United States
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@Rochelle95 

30 Nov 2022 16:53 EditedLast reply 12 Feb 2023 10:11

Rochelle95

Dating…

I would just like to know your thoughts on having MS and dating. When would you tell the person about MS ? Has anyone got any good or bad stories they would like to share 😊
London, United Kingdom
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@Nurbina10 

6 Oct 2022 12:06Last reply 6 Oct 2022 20:51

Nurbina10

Dating

Dating when you have MS is impossible. I can't win. I just want someone who understands
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@jesilva62 

9 Nov 2021 18:36Last reply 10 Nov 2021 22:30

jesilva62

Dating

I would love to hear from anyone that is currently single with MS and trying to date, or anyone that was single and is now in a relationship/married. How do/did you deal with dating and disclosing the diagnosis with your partner? How do you get over the thought of feeling like "damaged goods" or tha...
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