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@shanai 

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shanai

Sex

Yeah I'm gonna drop this right here and I apologise in advance but I've not noticed that anyone has spoke about it. I'm 18, I have a partner. I have noticed that it's hard for me to finish, even with self pleasure, and my partner feels awful about it, I don't know if I can do anything about it, but ...
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@Wesley14 

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My neurolog ask if i have problem with sex but no i think im more strong with MS in sex lol , anyone have problem ??
Reims, France
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@jwilson73 

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Anyone else have a spouse who isn't understanding when it comes to sex? He gets mad at me if I'm not in the mood.

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@CrunchyCookie88 

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Hey everyone hope things are going well for you all. It’s been a while since I posted anything on here I’ve just been in my thoughts, but I just had a bit scare, now I haven’t been sexually active for a while and my daughter is turning five and in June. OK so my breath started hurting me like really bad like I was pregnant again, but I haven’t been involved with anyone so I weigh that option out, but I took a shower today and I looked at my breast and they were leaking. I’m just going to make an appointment at the Doc. I read up on it though it’s quite normal for someone to still be producing Milk, or after going through ptsd to experience this. . Oh yea I am supposed to be getting my shot soon it’s just a waiting game honestly.

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@keybaby94 

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keybaby94

Sex life mine is amazing but I hurt afterwards

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@Lindsay82 

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Sex……question for the ladies.

Do any other ladies have any troubles “getting there” during sex? It’s so messed up, like my vagina had died?! The drive is there but it’s damn near impossible to get off anymore. Even by myself. I’ve had MS now for 14 years and I’m 40 years old.
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@SamuelJS 

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Sex, relationships and MS

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@sammyksmiles 

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sammyksmiles

Hey ya'all! Has any of my MS people experienced the loss of sensation/control of urination or bowel movements? And sex?

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@Eltel 

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A lot of you guys are talking about dating with MS, it’s now been 6years since my last relationship, I miss the banter , the fun , the hugging , the intimacy with a woman. So due to the lack of activity in my sex life I’ve decided to become a Muslim. My Muslim name will be “Seldom Bin Laidon”. Having MS is not exciting or easy to live with but we have to keep going and hoping life might get a little better for us , we have to keep smiling guys

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@Starmiss 

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Sexy time

I’m a lil upset as I just wrote a funny, meaningful post but there was an error :( I personally think it was the language I used. Anywho take 2 So I’m 37 female whose V has died. My OT says it’s my battery level and fatigue that’s causing me to feel this way. I want my sexy time back, life is grey...
Leicester, UK
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