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@shanai 

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shanai

Sex

Yeah I'm gonna drop this right here and I apologise in advance but I've not noticed that anyone has spoke about it. I'm 18, I have a partner. I have noticed that it's hard for me to finish, even with self pleasure, and my partner feels awful about it, I don't know if I can do anything about it, but ...
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@Wesley14 

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My neurolog ask if i have problem with sex but no i think im more strong with MS in sex lol , anyone have problem ??
Reims, France
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@Lindsay82 

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Sex……question for the ladies.

Do any other ladies have any troubles “getting there” during sex? It’s so messed up, like my vagina had died?! The drive is there but it’s damn near impossible to get off anymore. Even by myself. I’ve had MS now for 14 years and I’m 40 years old.
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@AntRainford 

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Let’s talk about sex

OK we don’t talk about it but we really should ! My sex drive is pretty much zero with just no appetite. I guess others are like this , so how do you cope with this ? How do your partners feel ? Is this mainly a bloke thing ? Would be really interested to hear your thoughts 😊
Stafford,GB
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@Starmiss 

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Sexy time

I’m a lil upset as I just wrote a funny, meaningful post but there was an error :( I personally think it was the language I used. Anywho take 2 So I’m 37 female whose V has died. My OT says it’s my battery level and fatigue that’s causing me to feel this way. I want my sexy time back, life is grey...
Leicester, UK
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@Scott_Socco_Pickworth 

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Scott_Socco_Pickworth

Sex life

Ever since I've been diagnosed with ms last year my sex drive is zero I rather turn over and go sleep,is anybody else like this or is it just me
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@Beki 

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Beki

Ask your questions about sex

Folks: the new People's Hot Topic has been decided. Outscoring cannabis and CCSVI by ruddy loads; it is sex. Please ask your questions on this form: https://shift.ms/2012/06/ask-your-questions-about-sex/ The name you use will be read out by our expert when answering your question on video....
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@jat721 

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Question about sex and heat!

I had a relapse a month ago where I got a tingly, electrical feeling in my arms and lost most use of my left hand. Since then it has gone back to normal except for a slight tingle in the very tips of my fingers. I also started getting the lhermittes syndrome during my relapse, which has not gone awa...
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@reddivine 

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Sex. and disability

For something titled "sex, drugs and rock and roll".....everyone is very coy about the SEX word. So I'm biting the bullet and starting this one. Who was at MS Life 2012 and went to the Sex and disabilty seminar? I will fess up!
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@Gmckinty 

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Gmckinty

Sexual Dysfunction 😏

So…this is a topic that people don’t tend to talk about but being a young person trying to juggle all of my symptoms, this one has mentally beaten me quite a bit. I have spinal lesions so my sexual response has been impacted. The main problem being a lack of desire and I have exhausted myself trying...
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