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Hey you beautiful creatures. I'm not sure where to post this that would be best, so I'm just putting it on like- my page 😂 This is about sexual dysfunction+numbness! I'm very open and not embarrassed about things like this- so please feel free to scroll if you aren't comfortable sharing ☺️ And men, I appreciate your pov, but we function just a bit different... I think this one might be best to keep with the ladies of the group. Well, let's just jump in! I have never had issues with this before about 6 months ago. My previous relationship ended because of me getting sick (yeah, boo hoo, so on. Idrc, I'm over it. I'm sure that won't be the only person who misses out on me because of pain I go through every day ☺️) But! I noticed it started with him, so I know for SURE it's not the person I'm with. But I've started to... Almost go numb? But besides that!!! That's not the part that pisses me off. The part that upsets me, is when I can feel everything- I get close to the finish line........ And nothing. Just .. it almost dissipates..? The new guy I'm with, who is the sweetest most handsome and loving man I've ever met - hasn't said anything... But I can tell he's also getting frustrated with it in a way? I think he's having a hard time with feeling... Unsatisfactory? I'm part of the BD$M community already, so it's not a boring lifestyle, we have fun, it's a WONDERFUL time. But I can't get that to stop happening? I don't think it's a mental thing...? I'm in therapy, she said it's probably not based on the way I've talked about it...? Idk... Any advice would help! Oh! And when this started - I WASN'T on any medication yet! So not a side effect from that either ?