I said it…
My husband and I got into an argument and he mentioned to me all the things he has to put up with when communicating with me. Now mind you, I am not innocent in all this but I just had enough and popped off and told him to go find himself a normal wife. One who does not have to say well it’s my MS. Blah blah. He acts like I don’t have to be patient with things he does and says. I am getting tired of always apologizing or saying that is not what I meant or my mistake baby if I speak to him in a way that he does not like to be spoken to or use the wrong word. I’m just venting….
I used to live in Delray beach. The heat is not a good thing for those of us with MS. I was there for 25 years and finally moved away almost 2 years ago to colder weather. I would never apologize if I did anything wrong. BUt, If im an assole, then I admit it.
Relationships! They are hard work at the best of times. Having MS can make everything harder work. My partner can use my MS as a way of making up things. He says you don’t remember. Funnily enough I remember arguing with him. People can be cruel, and take advantage of us. I would recommend trying to work through difficulties, if that’s what you want. The “school of life” offers coaching cards, books etc. or perhaps couples counselling is affordable, or if you feel it’s time to end it 🤷♀️, perhaps that is an option. Telling someone how you feel, without blaming, can be really helpful. It can open up everyone. Good luck.