@Pumba3112 

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Pumba3112

Dating!! / Catch ups

Is there anything such as dating specifically for people with ms? 🤷🏻‍♀️🙄 Diagnosed in 2021 (during COVID) and since COVID all finished iv found it extremely difficult to date. Not difficult for me in general I just mean if honest and upfront and as soon as I mention I have ms I get blocked instantly🤷🏻‍♀️ Or if I leave it for abit to see if it's going anywhere they say iv lied all this time 🙄 On that note.... a question for people in Kent, UK between late 20s-40 If there's people out there that would just like to meet for coffee do general normal things I don't mean in a dating/romantic way by the way lol 😆
@Juliapinkie1

Funny, the way that 2 little letters scare the hell out of ignorant, sorry, not-well-informed, people. Or, I've heard it all, they think i'm a member of a kinky sub-group of society. (Witch isn't far fetched in Italian though) or maybe i own a loyalty-card for marks&spencer? (In most highstreets there's a clothingshop with m&s above the entrance) the last one i made up, sorry. But funny, how "not mentioning" is construed as "lying". It's just an excuse to make you feel bad about yourself and they have a reason to reject you. But you proberply figured that out yourself.

@Juliapinkie1

Ps. And... eh, after doing some soulsearching and being honest with myself, what would i have done when i would be about 10 years younger and perfectly healthy? I just hate myself, but must confess I proberply would have had to think twice.. I have thought about what i would have done if my current partner told me after a month or so, that he had ms. And i tend to say, wholeheartedly, yes, absolutely i'm interested! But i was soooo head over heels... Still am. Already in to deep. (Soppy, I know,) "What the hell, go for it. We will figure things out when they occur." But i never ever dared to ask hìm about what hé would have done. Absolutely scared shitless about his answer. But it's evolving somewhat into a "me-show" now. Ànd kind of started a new topic. Curious still though. How others view this. Good luck with your queeste. O, volunteering at your local museum or arthouse maybe a hint? Since you asked about where you can meet people with ms? Potentionally these kinds of activities attract people who cannot maintain a fulltime job. I know from experiance; i had a paid and non-paid job there. Good luck!