@KrisP 

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KrisP

Relationships

Any advice on how to deal with this? I'm currently not diagnosed but having ALOT of problems which make it more and more likely. The issue I'm having is looking forward to the future or planning anything, I also find it hard seeing other people get on with life when I'm struggling. On top of this my other half has decided we should postpone wedding and having more children, after providing everything for 7 years it now seems when I need help everyone goes running. Sorry to have a moan just wondered how everyone else had coped?
@Stumbler

@krisp , relationships aren't easy. It's hard for a partner to watch us struggling and it does make you reconsider your future. MS, or whatever is bugging you, is our personal condition, but it does affect our nearest and dearest too. Our journey to manage this, also needs to be their journey too. But, having said that, our future is unpredictable, but isn't everyone's. Nobody knows what tomorrow is going to bring, so we're no different. Shift.MS has adopted a motto for this site :- https://shift.ms/rethink/ There's always light at the end of the tunnel. :wink:

@KrisP

Thanks @stumbler It's just a bit of a kick in the nuts, I've always been the lucky bloke had a really good life so far with business family etc and then this, I just wonder sometimes what I did to deserve it? And the fact it may affect my family life and relationship is something I'm struggling to come to terms with right now