My partner was just diagnosed.
Hello all,
My partner was just diagnosed with relapsing remitting MS this year. I am wondering if anyone has any advice on how I can support her. Thank you in advance :)
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I'm trying to think of the best ways I've been supported since diagnosis and other than my family who have been amazing I have to say my best friend has been a godsend. The way she deals with me is she treats me completely normally and we try to laugh at the whole situation, But at the same time she quietly in the background does small things that help me out and take the weight off. Treat her normally but also be aware that mentally and physically she might just need a breather and somebody to look after her every now and again. But everyone seems to be different too so hopefully more people will have advice for you. It will be a bit of an emotional rollercoaster for you both but you will find your rhythm eventually. If you need any specific examples just message me as I'm on the other side wishing I was brave enough to explain to most other people that I need them all to treat me the way she does! Hope this helps a bit.
@hhobbs We might live down the street from each other; maybe not. But I do live in Edmonton - friend me then send a private message if you would like to chat. We could hit a restaurant; you & I - or I could meet your partner for dinner if that works for them. Whatever helps... @weef29 - I love & live with your attitude. Too bad we do not live closer... Gord