My life has fallen apart since my diagnosis in September, my wives Lupus has progressed causing her to begin to suffer multiple organ failure at the age of 47 and now my 14 year olds school calls she has only gone 5 days since the new year even though I drop her off every morning at school. Her reasoning is you and mom did everything you were supposed to do and you are both dieing so I want to have fun while I can. Sorry just venting