Men can be so cruel and dumb
Well I asked the question to a guy I have been sleeping with 'what isvyour ideal woman cause its obviously not me' his answer 'somebody I can travel with going with is too hard'.
Well I asked him to be truthful, but that really really hurt, I can't stop crying cause its true. I have decided to. no longer see this man or any men, it made me think of my past relationships and why they ended even tho I wasn't this bad back then but who knows it might of been the same reason.
Life can suck sometimes.
<a href='https://shift.ms/community/people/lorag/' rel='nofollow'>@lorag</a> I think you shot yourself in the foot there. I mean, you asked a man to be honest!!! A MAN!! Not the love of your life. In a casual relationship, this is a deadly question to ask of anyone, male, or female. I've always said, never ask a question that you don't want answered. Don't give up on finding love, there are some decent people out there, even if they're hard to come by. I know that as I'm looking, myself.
<a href='https://shift.ms/community/people/lorag/' rel='nofollow'>@lorag</a>, in life, there is love and there is sex. You need to decide what you want from the man you share your bed with. Make that your decision. You'll know when love and sex are merging. It will all feel so natural. There's no harm in using blokes for your physical requirements. They'll probably be more than happy to oblige. But, you'll know when love comes along. Don't give up on the basis of this experience.