@jnich 

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jnich

I have had enough

Just had a huge argument with my partner. Apparently I make it all about the MS. It's not going anywhere mate so get educated. Tinnitus- everyone has that Tingling and numb hands and feet - everyone has that. Motion sickness - yup, you guessed it, everyone has that. Yeah, sure, individually but when it's all at once with an MS hug on top of it I'm pretty sure it's a bloody MS thing and I'm entitled to say it's getting a bit too much for me to deal with. Butt hole
@jamoranto

Just don’t talk about it..don’t complain .. easy as that.

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@Clary

It is really hard when the one person you want to confide in turns there back on you. MS sucks! I have looked at couples therapy (very expensive). Might be good if you can afford it. Talking about your feelings with your partner could be helpful. According to everything I have read, it is important to say “I” sentences instead of “you “ sentences. Example: “I feel sad when you….” Instead of “you make me feel sad when you……” Perhaps writing how you feel could be a way of communicating. I wrote emails to my partner. It made me feel better 🤷‍♀️. A mediator could help. With an MS diagnosis we need the support of others more than ever, unfortunately, a diagnosis can make everything harder. I wish you all the best.

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