@Jo_Buckland 

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Jo_Buckland

Naive??

So I’ve had my official diagnosis of MS from neurologist of which neither of us were surprised. Had already explained what was expected to my partner and family but everyone seems a lot more taken aback than I excpected. I’ve decided that the best course of action for me is to stay as upbeat as possible, I don’t want to stop anything I’m doing (nothing bad, just my horse and being fairly active) I just think I need to alter the way I do things, slow down etc but I’m getting very mixed signals from those around me. Half don’t believe me, some are behaving like I have a terminal illness and, as I care for my mum, her response was that she feels awkward now me looking after her if I think that she should be looking after me (which I don’t, just trying to explain that I can’t do as much as quickly as I used to). I know that no one can tell me how I feel but I don’t know if I’m being naive or irresponsible just taking whatever tomorrow brings, or not taking it seriously enough. I’m finding ordinary things much harder than I used to but just plodding along. I feel like I’m supposed to be making huge lifestyle changes instead. Any words of wisdom are hugely appreciated!
@Stumbler

@jo_buckland , the only people that understand what having MS means is those people with MS. The rest of the population has an alarming lack of awareness, so say inappropriate things. We have to live with that. From what you written, you seem to have a balanced and philosophical outlook. Just live healthily, eat healthily and avoid causes of stress. Let moderation be your friend and listen to your body. Your body will tell you if you need to slow down.

@Jo_Buckland

@stumbler thank you!