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@Min_Beattie 

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Min_Beattie

Feeling overwhelmed

I’m really struggling with touch, my tactile sensations drive me crazy . Does any one have this and also it affects my intimacy and my partner wants to see someone and as this is private I’ve had to ask as having Ms has always lowered my sex drive and now after my transplant (Hsct) I feel it’s worse 🤦‍♀️ Any thoughts I apologise in advanced I may forget to check for any ideas tips. I thought I just get straight in and ask 😳
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@Stumbler
@Stumbler
 

@min_beattie , I don't know whether there's anything here which might help :- https://support.mstrust.org.uk/file/WOMENS-SEX-WEB.pdf

@EdmontonAlberta
@EdmontonAlberta
 

@min_beattie I speak for nobody else on this forum except for me; the answer is NO! We got married for better or worse; either they are with you in this journey through life - or they are NOT. In my prime, sex with a partner was a couple of hours a week; when I had a partner. If I did not, masturbation was the alternative. 24 hours a day / 7 days a week = 168 hours. My partner gets 168 hours of emotional support & love. They received a couple of hours a week of physical pleasure from me. 100% love of which 1% was physical pleasure. I am not part of the package; I am all or nothing. If they choose to give up 100% for 1% of physical intimacy, that is their decision. I will not stop them. But if our wedding vows mean anything to them, they owe me honesty & respect. If they need to wander off, tell me. I will help them pack their bags, then change the locks on the doors when they leave. I was all or nothing since the day we met. I am still all or nothing. Any request that they can have their cake & eat it too is an insult to me; it will destroy my love & enthusiasm toward them. There is masturbation; there are toys. But physical intimacy with someone else is out of the question. Since you asked.