If i'm wrong about This being a personal issue. Let me know, please. But does anyone find that when they show some form of independence? Or some form of can do or some form of ability to look after oneself that it's looked at as negative in the eyes of others?For example, I have 2 chairs. My brother, bought.me one, and I'm going to use the other one for more important things. , now, I want them to think. How many pairs of shoes do they have? And what are they used for because having two chairs In my opinion is the same thing