going on dates and relationships.

I've had MS for about 9 years now and doing this for myself by myself isn't funny more it never was but it sucks even more without somebody there I've been single for a long time and I want to get out and talk someone I want to get out and find maybe my soulmate or find maybe the mother of my children who knows but I would like to find them, So I guess what I mean to say is, where do I start?