Him and I have been together going on 6 yrs its our 2nd time 1st was a month he got deployed and didn't want me to get that knock on my door 2012 then he finds me again Jan 2021 we haven't been separated since then we both just got divorced from our mistakes and want to be each other's last we r best friends and we love each other more than most but now its the rings the spot the dress we cant spend loads for this but its gonna happen regardless of money issues