Scared and alone
Hello everyone I am 23 years old and have been battling MS since I was 18. recently I have been noticing that I may need a cane or some sort of extra help when it comes to walking. I don’t know how to wrap my head around using some extra help, and honestly I’m afraid to have to be the person that uses a cane because what if I want to go to an amusement park or somewhere where using a cane would look funny . I just want some advice and maybe some reassurance from others that use a cane because honestly have to use a cane feels like giving up 😞
There is no doubt in my mind (and many people out there!) that stress causes this to me worse. I have this ‘gift’ for 32 years now, and I can tell you that ‘everything will be better once you stop fighting yourself and accept this!’ Seriously, one of the hardest part (if not THE hardest!) is your exception of how people look at you. It really makes no difference too many people. Once you see that, you will start to realize that you do what you have to do to survive. if you need a cane, use a cane. if you need a walker or a wheelchair or a scooter do what you have to do to survive and make your life easier. it is taking me a long time to realize that., And I’m better for it!
Hi you have to change how you look at things “I know I have”. I was the same as you and now I use a walking stick because 1, it’s not such a struggle for me to get about and 2, I can either be with everyone or be left at home because I wouldn’t manage! Miss out in all the fun. I have just gotten a mobility scooter and there is nothing holding me back now. Make sure you get a cane that is comfortable in your hand and use it even in the house and don’t worry about what others have to say. It makes you life easier. Hope all goes well xx