Then just don't go. I mean don't go. It's that easy. Don't go then there is no getting stuck doing somebody else wants to do just driving the car. That's part of the deal of riding with someone driving. You do what they want so don't go

@molliemoo you should never be or feel like a burden to your friends. I’m sorry. I definitely am not young but can’t even pretend to act like it. Having grandkids though I hate having times I have to saw no or can’t do things. I decided if no one wants to deal the. I don’t need or want to deal with them either. Like work, I would give so much and get crapped on. It don’t love you back and I’ve fought hard to get rid of feeling bad. My boundaries are for me and if you wanna have shallow friends have fun but that’s unfortunate.