I ended a 1 year relationship last month. Prior to that married for 11 years. I'm back on the datings apps but don't know how to manovere around me not working as a 42 year old male who looks completely healthy on the outside but is obviously not on the inside. I don't wish to tell girls I have MS until after the first date. I wish to know a person first and establish a connection. I don't like lying and saying I work, that's not a positive approach. A believe a big pro I have is that while I'm not cash ruch. I own my flat mortgage free. Any suggestions or experience from those out there who wish to share would be appreciated!?!