@I’d love to hear about your experience.I work at a company that really pushes everyone to their limits. Most days I’m putting in 10–12 hours. Then I come home to three kids (12, 7, and 3), and there’s homework, activities, and just spending time with them. My wife does most of the heavy lifting at home. Honestly, all I dream about during the day is just some quiet and sleep.How do you manage the daily grind? Do you set goals for work, family, or yourself? Do you try to work on your skills, learn new things, or pick up new languages?Sometimes I notice that all these goals and self-improvement efforts feel completely meaningless. At meetings, we talk about ambitious new targets, but all I can think about is peace and sleep. Even when planning weekends with the kids, my mind just wants the same thing: quiet and rest.I’m really curious—how do you stay motivated to live fully, take action, and chase your goals? on Shift.ms

Your dilemma resonates with me as well. I was diagnosed at 40 with three small kids (youngest was a first grader). I was working from home 8-10 hr day and by the time I decided to go out on disability, I was working 14 hour days and had major mgmt responsibilities. I never was able to balance work life and thought by retiring I would be able focus more on my health and family but as my ms has worsened, I pull away from family and friends. I don’t know the right answer but I wish you all the best in your quest.