still not getting anywhere (with this site)
left the site for a while to see if anything had improved when I came back. & no it hadn't-still had conversations deleted which hadn't even started,dunno what's going on so will leave again for a bit longer. Sorry 🙃

@NatureDeb Which conversations have been removed? Are they thread posts or connection requests/ conversations? I would suggest contacting the admin staff for the site directly, and see if they have any ideas or can present solutions for you. I fear that walking away, without doing anything to rectify the situation, will simply result in you being in exactly the same position later on.
I too have conversations deleted that haven't even started but I appreciate the aspects of the service that do work well and feel I get good value in return for my £1 per month donation so I am staying. Hope you return.