Pre ms I’ve always struggled with this why can’t we just say that someone looks good? It’s not a chat up line, it’s not indicative of anything other than you think a person is glowing, looks good, has done something different & it suits them etc etc etc why do ‘we’ struggle to just say this? Post ms - well I’m not friggin well am I? So looking well doesnt actually fit….does it? For MSers ‘looking well’ is a double edged sword- it can give us anonymity & safety but it also belies our internal health struggles an unsteady gait can suggest someone is a bit stiff or aging, we could just be a bit dense not struggling with cognitive issues or have eye issues not a neurological condition etc etc ‘Looking well is a compliment & a curse’ ‘A blessing but still a disguise’ Think I need to embrace both sides of this & make my peace with it - THANK YOU for reading this - I’m having a crap day & needed to get this off my chest ie moan, bitch & rant a bit Take care of you ALWAYS ms shift community 🧡🍀💪✊😊