So, I’ve been married for 12 years, dating for 15 and it’s come to the point where we’re now separated. It’s been tough since I was in a care home last year for 3 months and he literally made me cry everytime he visited. Now it’s gotten to the point where I’m scared if he talks to me in case he says anything that would make me cry. I had to transfer the mortgage over to him in order to get a council house which I’m still waiting for. I’m hoping to be able to bid from the end of next week. It’s just the things he now says at me or to the kids which then gets back to me. Like I’m lazy and the kids will live in filth. He said the kids will live with me then he’ll call social services and have the kids taken off me because I won’t clean them or the house. He’s had me sleep in the bed since January but now he says it’s HIS house now so he’s having his bed back so I’ll be on the sofa from now on until I move. I’m just fed up with everything that’s going on. My anxiety isn’t coping with: separation, divorce, him having a girlfriend, him comparing me to her all the time, him getting the kids to love her more than me.. I just need advice/help/someone to talk to..