Struggling to find someone
I wanted to share something personal, maybe someone can relate. Since my diagnosis, and the first symptoms, I feel like it's almost impossible to go on dates. My MS is not that invisible right now because i depend on crutches for long walks (a year ago didn't need it). I feel like that's immediately a turn off because people don't want to date someone with reduced movement. Maybe my solution is to find someone that relates, i don't know... Or just accept the reality as it is.
Different things will turn different people on and off. Dating is rough at the best of times, when you aren't feeling your best self it becomes even harder. My advice, life isn't that deep. Everyone is looking for value to their lives and trying to do the best they can with what they have. Be honest, have fun and if things dont work out, you will have met some great people and had a lot of fun (hopefully not too many odds ones along the way). I wish I'd have met my person long before I did and wont pretend everything is always easy but we have the best times, explore the world and laugh - everything else is just noise. Good luck - and remember to enjoy every minute, we are here for a good time, not for a long time!