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pottypete

Problems with sexual intercourse/Libido

In the past have suffered with Libido problems, also erectile disfunction ( treated with Cialis). More recently, it has been pain that is causing troubles with having intercourse (hands and legs, feet). Any males having similar problems? Suggestions?

pottypete

@pottypete

Funny, did n't think anyone would comment and it hasn't happened, no shock there then.

Stumbler

@Stumbler

Now, you didn't really expect to get a response on this subject. We're British, stiff upper lip etc., so we don't discuss such issues. But, I think most MS males will admit to problems in this area. I know I have, but the only pain I've got is the one in the ar*e because things aren't working! So minimal function, but no pain. :)

DJDsouza

@DJDsouza

Viagara is your friend. Though, foreplay is also very good for setting the right mood etc. Fellatio is a brilliant alternative if nothing else works. ;)

stevedomino

@stevedomino

yep i've had problems in this area too - i also commented on a previous thread on this, too! no pain (apart from Stumbler's arse pain !), but a lot of frustration and lack of sensitivity (continued)

stevedomino

@stevedomino

biggest problem i had was when we were trying to get pregnant - i only had one 'job to do', but lack of sensitivity meant i was never able to 'make my deposit' - very stressful but our daughter is 4mnths old now! if you're with an understanding partner, you'll be fine.

IANG

@IANG

HI PETE I DO THINK YOU HAVE SOME BALLS TO ASK THIS . I DO NOT THINK I COULD HAVE ASKED IF I WAS HAVING PROBLEMS . AND THE WIFE WOULD NOT WANT ME TO TALK ABOUT IT ANYWAY FULL RESPECT .YOU ALL DESERVE CREDIT AND RESPECT . TAKE CARE AND I WISH YOU ALL WELL .........IAN G X.

paul2011

@paul2011

viagra works great in "keeping it up" but if you can't feel a thing it's just a total waste of time unfortunately.

pottypete

@pottypete

Well we're all adults and should be able to talk about anything. It's no good hiding from problems if they exist, that just compounds things. You are incognito here, so out with all the ills. Anyway,I can keep it up now, it's just that I suffer body pain during the act, which is what makes it a bit of a trial. As I'm now in the dating game again, it knocks the confidence slightly. Ta for the input anyway.

neilcross

@neilcross

It is comforting to read that I am not the only guy with this problem. I also have problems ejaculating which makes things extra hard to take. Has any other guy suffered this? And if so, what have they done about it?

pottypete

@pottypete

A lot of medications cause serious problems with ejaculation or lack of. Check with your GP if this might be the case. I had this problem for years after being on anti-depressants for clinical depression brought on by the MS.