I wouldn’t I would be grateful if I say something hurts they are all I know what you mean my back hurts too.. I’m like you don’t even know. They do not let me go places alone.. as annoying as that is I understand I’m a fall risk an agree.. from falling I’ve broken both feet twice, my sturnum and left rib cage.. so it’s warranted. But they still expect me to do everything I’ve always done.

Best way to do it is just be honest and straightforward. Id just show appreciation first and then explain how I can do it myself. Or you can tell them that if you need help with stuff, you’ll make sure you ask them but if not, you would like your independence