@KingCorbs24 I think you are overthinking the situation. You have pointed out a lot "what if's". Here's a suggestion, why don't you sit down with your loved one and talk to her. Maybe she is terrified of becoming bedridden, ending up in a wheelchair, having to rely on her friends and family for support. Your percentages mention 20% of something, that means 80% of us don't use any of those mobility options. I've had MS for 20 years, I still walk, talk, have a normal life, work full time, I raised two children by myself. MS is individual to each person and your loved one has no more idea of what life holds for them than you do. Please stop googling and talk. And thank her for being so honest with you.

I understand the initial shock and worry for the future. However, the key point is this: you may develop a condition next year, or in 10 years or in 20, that creates a similar fear for the future. Now, God willing, you won’t. But we all should approach each other with recognition that true love and commitment says “ I love you so much that I will put your needs above my own”. Now, I was diagnosed in 2005. After the initial freak-out period, I realized that our good life would continue. I continued to work until 2020 and now work just a few hours per week from home, while on disability status. My mobility is great, but I have to conserve energy to allow for activities. My husband knows that I must nap every afternoon…so that is set in stone. Fatigue is strong. But my mornings are pretty darn good. I have sensory temperature problems, often icy cold burning in hands and legs. So, in short, do not let your mind go to the worst possible scenario. I recommend you do not give up on real love just because someone has a condition. Because one day, WE ALL will have a condition. Truly. God did not make us to be in perfect health forever. Be with someone who loves you regardless. And consider whether you can love this woman regardless. Best wishes for a bright future and loving relationship!