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How do you deal with a spouse that refuses to learn a anything about MS, Chronic pain, chronic fatigue and more who tells you your just lazy

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@Steve5

That can be difficult. I don’t think you can change someone they have to want to change. I would say gravitate to things that will build you up. Pray and read the Bible. God will build you up. Go to the gym as it will build you up as well. Any hobby or family.

14 Nov 2025 08:04

@chefmyerlemon

That’s really tough, i’m sorry. Being told you are lazy is awful and no one should ever say that to you. Is your spouse willing to couples therapy? You deserve someone who will suppot you.

14 Nov 2025 15:29