Husband has MS
Hi, I've just joined this forum (I guess that's what you call it) and would like to be in touch w/the partners of "MSers" (another new word for me.) My husband was diagnosed w/MS back in 1997 and after the initial affects of it hasn't had a ton of problems like so many do. Well....he has a horrible lower spine from being a tile contractor for 30 yrs. and contributes all his physical problems to it instead of the MS. Even now his drs. are trying to figure out, once again, what is causing what and what can be done about his lower back. But as we have aged, both 62 now, I am watching him waste away physically, and perhaps cognitively?, and have questions about this. He is stubborn about going to dr's and following their advice and he's never agreed to be on any treatment. So I do not have access to his neurologist w/my questions. I would just like to have others to discuss things with. Thanks, Concerned Wife
@concerned_wife I am not a partner with MS yet I might be one to chat with; or my wife if you have Facebook... I am 62 years old. Had spine surgery two years ago followed by an MS diagnosis last January. I am as stubborn as all $@*^ and ignore Doctor recommendations. (i.e. I still drink & smoke)... Just got accepted for Government disability so have income for four more years; then government pension kicks in... Having said that, my wife is always welcome to attend my appointments because she does not nag; she is just there to listen so she remains aware of what is going on. She is 100% in charge of my dietary requirements & ensuring I take my daily drugs / medicine. Jos in an absolute sweetheart & I am lucky to have her by my side! My philosophy is life is a journey & we all have the same destination; enjoy the ride. Gord
Hi @concerned_wife and welcome. Shift.MS has recently started to focus on the role and problems of partners. The following link will take you to some related information. https://shift.ms/msreporters-video/partner-support-group-people-ms-i-access-support Us blokes do seem to be somewhat obstinate. I wonder whether our (the male) intransigence is behind the fact there are more females with MS than males? It wouldn't surprise me. :wink: There are a few partners on the Forum here. But, we can all answer questions about MS for you.