Hi @barneygeorge and welcome. You are you, you're not MS! It's not something to throw into initial conversations. You'll know when it's right. Trust your feelings. :wink:

hi @barneygeorge I am no expert on this area and wondered about that myself; but I like to offer opinions on anything, including the best way to lick stamps, so here goes... Depends in part what your looking for love ... or Love :-) If its just a friends with benefits or similar type of scenario and you have disability, then you might want to set expectations that you won't be doing role play dressing up as batman jumping off the wardrobe at the getgo, so as she won't be disappointed when the moment arrives :-) ... on the other hand if you have no disability, knock yourself out batman, why do you need to disclose anything in that situation.... if its most likely short-term.... On the other hand if your seeking long-term and Love, then IMHO its probably best to get it out of the way as soon as.... picking an appropriate moment.....maybe not too early but I would say early enough.... as Stumbler says you will probably just feel when its right ..... Good luck !