Dear all i suffer from relapsing remitting ms and am really struggling at present getting suitable accommodation for me and my family. The upshot of it all is i was diagnosed in 2009 ive had to finish work this February 2017 as a result i ended up declairing myself personaly bankrupt this loseing my home as the practitioner wanted my share of the collateral and my wife owed hers out in debt incurred whilst i was ill last year, After this the house was sold and we were deemed homless and social housing offered us a propert been so desperate with 2 young children in our care we accepted one at out of area after 2 months we have realised this is such a bad move that we felt railroaded to take.
It was offered stating it had a downstairs toilet it was in a real bad state on top this
my wife is trying to care for me whilst taking the children in excess of 24 miles a day to schools. The final straw was at the weekend my wife had taken the children shopping and i needed the toilet i came downstairs to a thudding sound half way down stairs my right leg give way i grabbed the banninster and twisted my elbow and forearm hence ending up in a heap at the bottom of the stairs and no support network to contact been so far away. The noises were local youths hurling snowballs at my windows we have since had Christmas decorations stolen from the front of our house and threats of windows been broken . My 3 year old grandaughter cant settle my grandson wont go to bed on his own and in between ive found its causing me so much stress amplifying my ms symptoms.
I really nead to get back within our support network and a more suitable property that is either one level or downstairs facilities.
Im so frightened to be left up here on my own incase such a thing more serious may happen in the future by me tumbling and been left injured for a long period of time. Our grandchildren are on a unsupervised special guardianship with us from birth and we are trying to keep regulatory and routine as much as possible for them with there schools and freinds etc but surely child social services along with adult social services should be in a position to intervene to help us get more suitable accomodation within our social network. Ive been under the hospital psychology and when i go back next week she will notice my mental deterioration as i feel so hopeless. Has anybody experienced anything simular they may be able to advice on or give any contacts of organisations that may be able to help.
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