@katfight 

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katfight

need to moan about me!!

So I posted couple weeks back about my life. I didn't tell the whole truth tho so here it goes, im gay so my partner who has just left me is a woman. So ive struggled recently dealing with tge new diagnosis, then the relationship ended and this week my ex girlfriend who has only ever had girlfriends tells me her "best friend" who she met 2 years ago and always goes out with but I wasn't allowed to meet properly is now her boyfriend. Yes her boyfriend I am so confused and now even more so! Weve been split 4weeks so how long has it really gone on for?? I am loosing every will to live.. I am completely stuck at rock bottom I don't know how lower I cud get. My ms has gone wappy but I don't care about that. I need my life bk the person I loved so much. I need it all bk, and I need ms to leave me alone :(
@Stumbler

MS doesn't give a shit about sexual orientation, and neither do we! So, I'm glad you've felt able to share this burden. You need to get over your ex and then you can start concentrating on you. Given these latest set of circumstances, it seems that not only didn't you know her, but it seems she didn't even know who she was. This will take time to understand, but you'll get there and you'll realise that you've been released from living a big mistake. You now need to concentrate solely on yourself. You need to make you feel better about yourself, so do whatever floats your boat that makes you happy. Just don't overdo anything as that will play into the hands of your MS. I'm sorry that you're having to go through all this, but you will get through it. PS I removed your duplicate posts - didn't want anyone thinking you were repeating yourself. :wink:

@msue62

Perhaps your ex is struggling with her sexuality, perhaps she is simply bisexual, she is definitely messing you about. Take care of your symptoms now you should be able to get some medication, talk to your MS nurse, mine is brilliant. It doesn't really matter whether your ex is a boy or girl the feeling is the same and an MS diagnosis will hit you for six!