Hi I think it's brilliant you are being so understanding just listen to your wife don't take it personal if she gets mad it's not with you but the illness she is anger with, I use to get so anger and my husband thought it was something he done but now he understands, or perhaps it's just me (I have always had a temper) I think as long as you are there for her that's the main thing also my husband brought me a book by Judy Graham ms Naturally it as really helped me to take control of my illness but it made me realize my husband was trying to help me, your wife is lucky she as you to help her

Hiya @pkosa - As above (great advice) - this will be a testing time for you BOTH. There will be periods of grieving (the life that once was) for each of you and so much learning. You will both be experts on this in a few months. MS affects us all differently. It really varies from person to person so be prepared to see where you'll be in a years time. Its baffling how everything and nothing will change. But, Meds are just around the corner which will bring back some normality and that'll be a great starting point.