@lorag 

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lorag

Saying No

I am feeling down cause just feel like shit. I am saying no to going out now which I never had done before no matter how I feel. I know everybody has been through this it just seems like one thing after another lately. Just want things to be like it was before :-(
@Stumbler

Oh, <a href='https://shift.ms/community/people/lorag/' rel='nofollow'>@lorag</a>, things always change and nothing stays the same. You've recently experienced a bad emotional scene, which has obviously knocked you back a bit. Don't let some shallow male impact your life to this extent. So, pick yourself up, dust yourself down and start all over again (cue for a song!) You've just forgotten about your inner strength - you still have it! Illegitimi non carborundum. 8-)

@pottypete

I agree with stumbler. Go out anyway. I find that doing so, even when down, as your expectations are lower, consequentially, lead to a better experience on the whole. Life is for living, not for letting it pass by.